Today, I was basically told that I’ll never be 100% happy because I don’t want to have kids. What kind of messed up logic is that?! This is as stupid as thinking that having a kid can save a marriage. It doesn’t make any sense, at all. And no, I don’t think I’ll “change my mind when I find the right one to start a family with.”, that’s what pets are for. By the age of 5 I was already conscious of the facts that I was gay, I didn’t believe in God and I didn’t want to have a child. I’m 22 years old now and I’m still gay and I’m still an atheist, so do you really think that someone who has such strong certainty about something so ahead in the future in such a young age is gonna change his mind in a snap of a finger? I just don’t have the parental instinct in me. Can’t you just be glad I realized it before it was too late? If I find the one, I’ll make sure he’s not a fan of kids, either, so don’t you worry about that.
And let me tell you something: if you think that having a baby is gonna save your marriage, you are a complete fucking moron. Your husband is not gonna stop to cheat on you, your wife is not gonna make you a sandwich and sure as hell your personalities (y’know, the little things that makes you wanna stab yourself with a chainsaw and hang yourself with your own stomach) are not gonna go away. The only things you’re doing are postponing the inevitable and putting your psychologist’s child through an early retirement.
You have no right to treat me like a murderer just because I don’t like kids. It’s not like I hurt them or something. I can take them in small doses and in short periods of time, I just don’t like being around them all freaking the time. It does not make me a raging psycho, people, so stop looking at me like I am one. Get a grip.